It’s kind of humorous, how even as a strong and independent woman who has learned multiple times, through mistakes both my own and others, not to wait for a man-I find myself doing it anyway. Dating over the years has taught me a few things, and usually it all comes back to the whole ‘he’s just not that into you‘ thing (even though a lot of my old reasons in that post no longer hold water with me). If a guy wants you, he’ll make it happen, you shouldn’t have to wait around like a fool trying to decide whether he does or not.
However, sometimes I think you need to throw the rules into the wind and blaze a newer braver path. There’s no reward without a little risk, is there? This time it’s different. I’m not waiting around blindly for what I want. Instead, he’s been very clear with me from the get go about what he plans to do, how he feels, and what is happening along the way. It’s kind of remarkable, this full honesty policy we’re working with, and I think that makes all the difference with people. It’s nice to find someone who can be as blunt and honest as I can-it’s really remarkable.
But one thing is for sure, I’m caught. I want to see what happens next, and I trust him enough to give it time and know he’s working on it. Here’s hoping the time goes by quickly, and things fall into a great place for the both of us again.
As if the dream of you, it sleeps too, but it never slips away